1. Relying 100% on “being special.”
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Relying on appearance (that is out of your control i.e. your height, ethnicity, looks) is a long-term bad habit.
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What will you do as the world becomes more globalised and you become “less special”?
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Keep moving cities and countries?
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All looks fade; however, social skills (game) are long-term.
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2. Completely avoiding the “foreigner bars.”
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This links to the first point. To “feel special and avoid competition“, many guys will actively avoid other foreigners.
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The problem with this is girls with a Western mindset (humour and good English)…
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who also like Western guys will tend to go to the “foreigner bars”.
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Why completely avoid your target market?
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3. Going out to “pick up girls”
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Sure, one of the goals of going out is dating results; however, if your only goal is “girls”, then the results will be counterproductive.
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Guys who only go out to pick up girls are blatant to spot because they look incredibly out of place.
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They’re standing with their friends, but none are talking to each other and having fun. They’re just looking around the room (for girls).
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The drinking water at the bar if anything at all.
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(I usually order cranberry juice because I avoid alc)
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Instead, go out to be social.
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Meet other high-value guys and girls who aren’t just “hot chicks”, and this social proof can make you look like the life of the party… and therefore aid you in pulling that night.
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