You can’t be half a gangster

“Ain’t no such thing as halfway crooks”, you’re either a gangster or you’re not.

This week I encountered a fantastic video by James Tusk…

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Avoid doing things 50% in life. Either devote yourself or don’t do it.

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The video made me reflect on situations where I didn’t fully commit to something meaningful.

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1. Not putting myself out there 100% in my coaching business due to fear, I.e. posting infield, selling products

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A benefit of doing this was that I could slowly grow the business while maintaining a stable income and lifestyle with my day job.

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However, my English teaching job became my comfort zone and limited my growth. Slow growth caused even more hesitation and self-doubt.

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2. Being in a relationship, but still going out to game (but only dating her).

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Sure, I could keep the social tools sharp and options open, but it caused me to be a little ungrateful to my girlfriend at the time and caused jealousy on her part.

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I was also unable to be fully present in the moment in my interactions and thoroughly learn the skills of going out as a single man.

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I also occasionally see guys going 50% into becoming the man they desire to be.

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They’ll be social, develop their game, and go to the gym while single. But, when they get a girlfriend, they get complacent and stop improving.

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Is there anything you are doing 50% but know you should be fully committing to?

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Reply to the email letting me know what you should be doing 100% or your thoughts on the topic.

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James